things that drive me crazy that happen too often

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there are some things which happen to me quite a bit that actually get annoying after a while. There are people in my life who ask me questions. And they keep asking me every day until I complain about it. Even then, some of the people that do this to me keep at it. One of these people is my nephew. He asks me every single day he's here, "Can I play your wii u?". I'm getting very tired of that question. People have asked me this so much and so frequently that I'm starting to wish I never bought a wii u since my wii was already broken. I always tell them no. I don't like people playing my systems when I'm not playing them. I have said that countless times. I'm about ready to complain about this to the people doing it. It's starting to make me mad. All kids in my family ever do is ask me that stupid question. I don't even know what to do about this issue anymore. Especially since it happens every week! And do not telk me to give them what they want. That will only give them the idea they can get on my wii u whenever they want and the fact is they cant.
 
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Hmmm...you can try keeping it hidden when they come around. I don't know if you live by yourself but if you do you keep it somewhere like your room or in a "off limits" zone.

You can also try maybe having them do something just as fun. My uncle used to take me into the kitchen and we draw or bake together when I asked to play with something as a small kid.

Maybe even have a movie day? Tell emotions to bring his favorite movie or have a movie ready for his visit. And if he asks say "I have a better idea." and have him watch a movie.
 
Tell them you sold it and put it somewhere safe, just like Jeff said
 
Whenever I like a cute girl that is my age and is cute and we both have the same in common, she's always in a relationship. It happened to me atleast 5 or 6 times now, and I feel sad when my luck really sucks when it comes to finding that one special girly girl. Although it feels like a curse I try overlooking. :( :D
 
Whenever I like a cute girl that is my age and is cute and we both have the same in common, she's always in a relationship. It happened to me atleast 5 or 6 times now, and I feel sad when my luck really sucks when it comes to finding that one special girly girl. Although it feels like a curse I try overlooking. :( :D
It happens to all of us, it's ok we are here for you :hug:
 
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It happens to all of us, it's ok we are here for you :hug:
Thank you for being here for me:cat::hug:, but this happens to me VERY frequently which I really hate. :( .
 
Thank you for being here for me:cat::hug:, but this happens to me VERY frequently which I really hate. :( .
There is a possibility, you can try to befriend them, so if they break up, you will be there :p
 
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There is a possibility, you can try to befriend them, so if they break up, you will be there :p
That is very rare but I'm everyone Bf if they ever need me or don't. :D
 
That is very rare but I'm everyone Bf if they ever need me or don't. :D
Then you are a good friend, and that is all that is important, and I don't know why no one should like you :cat: Words of wisdom
 
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Then you are a good friend, and that is all that is important, and I don't know why no one should like you :cat: Words of wisdom
Thanks @WaxyTree you are a great friend yourself. :D
 
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Thanks @WaxyTree you are a great friend yourself. :D
Sad to hear you're having trouble finding a lover... I had trouble for a while, but once I was 16 I found my guy. Ever since my first night with him, I knew we'd last a very long time together. I'm now 20 and he's 30. Please do not comment on that unless you've got something decent to say.
 
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Sad to hear you're having trouble finding a lover... I had trouble for a while, but once I was 16 I found my guy. Ever since my first night with him, I knew we'd last a very long time together. I'm now 20 and he's 30. Please do not comment on that unless you've got something decent to say.
It's ok we don't judge :hug:
 
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Sad to hear you're having trouble finding a lover... I had trouble for a while, but once I was 16 I found my guy. Ever since my first night with him, I knew we'd last a very long time together. I'm now 20 and he's 30. Please do not comment on that unless you've got something decent to say.
That's how life is I guess. :D
 
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Well I'm glad you don't, but when my friends in school found out about it, some of (no, a lot of them, maybe all of them) thought I should be with someone closer to my age. I didn't care. He was perfect, and still is. We never argue. We never fight. We can always agree on something, and if we can't, we talk it out instead of arguing and decide what's best. I feel very lucky to have someone like this. Most people don't get that lucky. At least it seems that way now. We both now live together, and are both happy. I actually told him about the problem I mentioned in my first post, and the last time they came over (which was this saturday), my nephew asked to play my wii u again, and my man was right there to see it. And here was his reaction: he literally scolded him for asking me that. He was not happy. He gave him a long, rough scolding. I didn't stop him, though. He did it because he knew how tired of that question I was. The poor kid ran away crying (and I actually kind of felt bad for him, but I never said anything). The next thing that happened was his mother (my sister) came soon after my boyfriend walked away, and said to me, "Why did you let him do that?" I didn't respond. I knew she was referring to my boyfriend's reaction. I said to her, "I'm sorry, but I'm really tired of him asking me every day to play my wii u. I figure I might as well let him scold the kid in order to teach him that I don't want anyone on it. I'm sorry if you're angry, but if you say anything to him at all about this, I'm kicking you out and you're going home; if you don't like it, too bad." She walked away without saying anything, but I knew she was mad at both of us.
 
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Well I'm glad you don't, but when my friends in school found out about it, some of (no, a lot of them, maybe all of them) thought I should be with someone closer to my age. I didn't care. He was perfect, and still is. We never argue. We never fight. We can always agree on something, and if we can't, we talk it out instead of arguing and decide what's best. I feel very lucky to have someone like this. Most people don't get that lucky. At least it seems that way now. We both now live together, and are both happy. I actually told him about the problem I mentioned in my first post, and the last time they came over (which was this saturday), my nephew asked to play my wii u again, and my man was right there to see it. And here was his reaction: he literally scolded him for asking me that. He was not happy. He gave him a long, rough scolding. I didn't stop him, though. He did it because he knew how tired of that question I was. The poor kid ran away crying (and I actually kind of felt bad for him, but I never said anything). The next thing that happened was his mother (my sister) came soon after my boyfriend walked away, and said to me, "Why did you let him do that?" I didn't respond. I knew she was referring to my boyfriend's reaction. I said to her, "I'm sorry, but I'm really tired of him asking me every day to play my wii u. I figure I might as well let him scold the kid in order to teach him that I don't want anyone on it. I'm sorry if you're angry, but if you say anything to him at all about this, I'm kicking you out and you're going home; if you don't like it, too bad." She walked away without saying anything, but I knew she was mad at both of us.
At least no little sausage fingers touch your Wii U you could say that was a mini victory :cat:
 
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Well I'm glad you don't, but when my friends in school found out about it, some of (no, a lot of them, maybe all of them) thought I should be with someone closer to my age. I didn't care. He was perfect, and still is. We never argue. We never fight. We can always agree on something, and if we can't, we talk it out instead of arguing and decide what's best. I feel very lucky to have someone like this. Most people don't get that lucky. At least it seems that way now. We both now live together, and are both happy. I actually told him about the problem I mentioned in my first post, and the last time they came over (which was this saturday), my nephew asked to play my wii u again, and my man was right there to see it. And here was his reaction: he literally scolded him for asking me that. He was not happy. He gave him a long, rough scolding. I didn't stop him, though. He did it because he knew how tired of that question I was. The poor kid ran away crying (and I actually kind of felt bad for him, but I never said anything). The next thing that happened was his mother (my sister) came soon after my boyfriend walked away, and said to me, "Why did you let him do that?" I didn't respond. I knew she was referring to my boyfriend's reaction. I said to her, "I'm sorry, but I'm really tired of him asking me every day to play my wii u. I figure I might as well let him scold the kid in order to teach him that I don't want anyone on it. I'm sorry if you're angry, but if you say anything to him at all about this, I'm kicking you out and you're going home; if you don't like it, too bad." She walked away without saying anything, but I knew she was mad at both of us.
Then you should get married if u two aren't. :D
Ok maybe that was very harsh I mean he is only a child I don't even hate my nephew that much it NP I guess(besides he's only 3)

Also ur sister is your sister, you never turn your back on her. Cause you don't what could happen to you one day and you might need her that time and she might turn her back on you :p. It's just a wise saying :D
 
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Also ur sister is your sister, you never turn your back on her. Cause you don't what could happen to you one day and you might need her that time and she might turn her back on you :p. It's just a wise saying :D
Very true :cat:
 
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I know... I tried to get her to stay, but she didn't seem to want to... But because my boyfriend loves me so much, he has a tendency to be very firm with people who do things like that to me. He doesn't even seem to consider age sometimes. Now oddly enough, I've seen him yell at little boys like this, but hardly ever with little girls. Now here's what really makes him mad: he has zero tolerance for people hitting on me or showing any sort of that kind of interest in me. There was actually a time where he invited a friend of his over to hang out with and have a drink with, and he kept following me around and asking me questions about my sex life. I kept telling him to stay out of it (and in the friendliest way possible), and once he asked me another similar question, my boyfriend dragged him by the shirt and literally threw him out the front door. Do anything like that to me, and you're getting yourself kicked out of the house by him. He's very easy anger if you don't know him the way I do. Simple things like what my nephew did yesterday will make him furious. I'm one of the only people he's met that actually managed to never make him mad. He must really like me to never get mad at me the way he has with other people.
 
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Well honestly a boyfriend is a stranger who loves you and your sister is someone who is born with you and never is considered a stranger. The only way that someone isn't a stranger like ur BF is that if he's ur husband, in that instant he is no longer a stranger. :D Also what region are you and ur BF from? Cause I want to know so it makes it easy to understand why he gets tempered easily.
 
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I'm American, and he's Russian. He moved to the US to learn English. When I met him, he seemed very shy. He had spent most of his time in Russia but told me he wanted to learn English and wanted a better life so he moved here. But he told me things actually got rougher for him, and people made fun of him a lot (and still do from what I've seen) becsuse he was and still is trying to learn what standard english is. This made it very hard for him to make friends, I imagine. I actually feel bad for the poor guy because he has a learning disability, and all of these people who have been making fun of his English have left him feeling very angry. I got a feeling this actually left a lasting impact on him, based on his personality now and the fact that he is very short-tempered.
 
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