I think the problem is the word. ;-; People misinterpret it, people think one group is getting one attention over another, etc. Let's change it to humanism or something so people don't get confused or think it's giving power to one group over another.
The word feminist has a really negative connotation. It's been plagued by women who take the idea too far and call themselves a feminist. .-. It just means women should be at the same level as men.
There are many statistics that show how many women are representative in higher organizations, and that number isn't really high. The big, big companies have a lot more men in power, leading to the inequalities and unfair representation of women.
I mean, yeah there are issues regarding women and equality in this world. But, some people really exaggerate and take it too far >.< Like some women are "scared to walk across the street without being catcalled" (saw this in a video, but I can't remem which). It's understandable that you're afraid, everyone is afraid of crime, whether it be catcalling or stabbing someone lol. But you can't assume every man that you see while crossing the street is gonna harass you or something. Unless that literally happens, which I highly doubt. .-.
Don't know if this is related or not, but another thing that bothers me is when women take a compliment the wrong way. .-. "You have a nice eye color" Does not mean "I'm gonna attack you" in any way. Some girls take compliments as harassment when it's generally a compliment ;-; Just accept the compliment and move on, sheesh >.< It does depend on the compliment, but if it's nothing vulgar the least you could say is thankyou, no? Even if the dude is looking at you like a creep, he took the time out of his day to say something nice. So whatevs ;-;
The problem with almost every issue is that we set out into groups. For example, #blacklivesmatter does not mean other races lives' don't matter. There's just a emphasis on one group cause they're in more trouble than the others. The fact that we separate stuff into groups and think "This race does that" and "this gender does that" is the problem. Feminism doesn't mean we want all men to burn and die, it just means women need a little help getting to the level where men are at ;-; this stuff is gonna be hard to fix cause it's etched into our social construct and upbringing x.x
tldr; The word feminist is very often misinterpreted... If we just saw every individual as a human being, and took away the stereotypes/grouping, this world would be a better place .-.
So much more I want to say but I'll stop here